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Behaviour Change Program

Am I Using Violence?

Do you find yourself…

  • Always acting like the ‘boss’?
  • Controlling your partner’s decisions?
  • Blaming your partner or other factors for making you angry?
  • Finding it hard to express your feelings and then exploding?
  • Hurting your partner, friend or family physically or emotionally?
  • Feeling anxious or confused about your behaviour?
  • Finding yourself constantly apologising for your behaviour?

Then you might be using relationship violence. Our support groups can help.

Why Choose Thorne Harbour?

  • Inclusive and Non-Judgmental: We welcome all gay/bi/trans/queer men and non-binary people, providing a space free from judgment and discrimination.
  • Evidence-Based Approach: Our methods are grounded in research and best practices in the field of behaviour change.
  • Community-Focused: We aim to strengthen the queer community by promoting healthy and respectful relationships.
  • Confidential Support: Your privacy is our priority. All our services are confidential to ensure you feel safe and supported.

If you are not eligible for these behaviour change programs but you would like to talk to someone about your use of abusive or controlling behaviours in relationships, please get in touch with us to discuss options. You can find more LGBTIQ+ inclusive services at safealways.org.

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IN-PERSON BEHAVIOUR CHANGE GROUP
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START - Safe, Trusting, Accountable, Respectful and Transformative

START is all about building relationships that are Safe, Trusting, Accountable, Respectful and Transformative.

Focusing on honesty, responsibility and support for making change, this 20 week group program is a queer and trans affirmative space where we explore the impacts of your behaviour and beliefs on yourself, your partners and others in your life.

Together we work to build your confidence and self-control as well as help you deal with conflict and difficult emotions — whether in your relationships or other parts of your life without the use of abusive or controlling behaviours.

Where: Thorne Harbour Health, 200 Hoddle St, Abbotsford VIC 3067

To sign up or refer someone else, call (03) 9865 6700 or email behaviourchange@thorneharbour.org with START in the subject line.

ONLINE BEHAVIOUR CHANGE GROUP
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Clear Space

If you don't live near Thorne Harbour Health, or would prefer to attend online, Clear Space is for you. The group is available nationwide.

We'll talk about the same things as START - building safer relationships with those around you.

Where: Online.

To sign up or refer someone else, call (03) 9865 6700 or email behaviourchange@thorneharbour.org with Clear Space in the subject line.

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